I have been listening to Mom & Me & Mom, one of Maya Angelou's autobiographies, during my commute. Although typically I have difficulty with the start-stop of listening to books on tape, I find her slow voice and particular style of enunciation captivating. It seems ironic to listen to this measured, gravelly voice reflecting on a youth that includes what I perceive to be knee-jerk and foolhardy choices. Although I'm slower to admit it, perhaps I am also surprised that this tempered persona became such by rough, sometimes violent interactions.
The VMFA provided a space for some quiet reflection one Sunday morning this summer. What I mostly remember about this scene is wondering how the ladies sitting near me knew each other: 3 women with British accents appeared to be in their 40's to 50's, who clearly saw each other regularly as was deduced both by their conversation and by their silence.
"I use the word love, not so much meaning sentimentality, but a condition so strong that it may be that which holds the stars in their heavenly positions and that which causes the blood to flow orderly in our veins." Maya Angelou